Tell Tale Traits of an Narcissist:
Narcissists feel superior to everyone.
Narcissists will shower you with attention at the beginning.
Narcissists will mirror your happiness as they are incapable of feeling any.
Narcissists replace attention with degradation.
THERE IS NO "LOVE" WITH A NARCISSIST......... EVER!!
Narcissists hate the words "I LOVE YOU"
Narcissists equate love with weakness.
Narcissists equate all emotions with weakness.
Narcissists are more likely to philander and dump their partners.
Narcissists are more interested in sexual pleasure than lasting initimacy.
All narcissists fear intimacy.
Narcissists are empty shells with no souls.
Narcissists see your love as inferior.
Narcissists doubt anyone could love them.
Narcissists have only one commitment, their own well-being.
Narcissists hate happiness & joy.
Narcissists are aware of the cruelty they inflict on others.....but they don't care.
Narcissists see you as an object.....no more, no less.
Narcissists are angry people.
Narcissists have never experienced love and never will.
Narcissists will project their faults onto you.
Narcissists hate routine and bore easily.
Narcissists are calculating, they will plan their abandonment of you on your first meeting.
Upon figuring out a narcissist, they will move on quickly and find another victim.
Narcissists will delight in fooling their trusting victim.
Narcissist will taunt and torment you even after you've abandoned them.
The paranoia constantly felt by the narcissists means that he is suspicious of virtually everyone he meets. He fears being caught out, recognized for what he really is (or what he really thinks he is), that is the inadequate being that lies beneath the false image. Obsessive mistrust means that he can never accept people for what they are, so there can never being a true and meaningful relationship, even with his family members.
But possibly the most destructive trait common to all narcissists is envy. As a result of feeling inferior, the narcissist can become envious of a spouse, a colleague or a neighbour, particularly a better educated, more intellectual or more successful one. It's not jealousy, you can't be jealous of something you have never had, but envy; often pathological envy. The pathological envy often felt by narcissist is a negative emotional condition brought about by the narcissist's knowledge of the possessions, achievements, or qualities of someone near to him that he does not have.
Envy involves the desire of the narcissist to have for himself something possessed by someone else. If he can't have it, he will try to destroy the possession, achievement, or quality in question, either literally or figuratively. For example, a narcissist will vehemently object to an application for planning permission by his neighbour if the result is to be that the neighbour's house will look better than his. A more figurative example may be when the narcissist envies a spouse's or a colleague's master's degree, when he doesn't have one of his own. He may describe someone he met at a recent party with a master's degree as being unintelligent and having no common sense, so by inference the spouse or colleague is not as intelligent as him, the narcissist, nor do they have common sense, as he has. From winning-teams.com
Narcissists feel superior to everyone.
Narcissists will shower you with attention at the beginning.
Narcissists will mirror your happiness as they are incapable of feeling any.
Narcissists replace attention with degradation.
THERE IS NO "LOVE" WITH A NARCISSIST......... EVER!!
Narcissists hate the words "I LOVE YOU"
Narcissists equate love with weakness.
Narcissists equate all emotions with weakness.
Narcissists are more likely to philander and dump their partners.
Narcissists are more interested in sexual pleasure than lasting initimacy.
All narcissists fear intimacy.
Narcissists are empty shells with no souls.
Narcissists see your love as inferior.
Narcissists doubt anyone could love them.
Narcissists have only one commitment, their own well-being.
Narcissists hate happiness & joy.
Narcissists are aware of the cruelty they inflict on others.....but they don't care.
Narcissists see you as an object.....no more, no less.
Narcissists are angry people.
Narcissists have never experienced love and never will.
Narcissists will project their faults onto you.
Narcissists hate routine and bore easily.
Narcissists are calculating, they will plan their abandonment of you on your first meeting.
Upon figuring out a narcissist, they will move on quickly and find another victim.
Narcissists will delight in fooling their trusting victim.
Narcissist will taunt and torment you even after you've abandoned them.
The paranoia constantly felt by the narcissists means that he is suspicious of virtually everyone he meets. He fears being caught out, recognized for what he really is (or what he really thinks he is), that is the inadequate being that lies beneath the false image. Obsessive mistrust means that he can never accept people for what they are, so there can never being a true and meaningful relationship, even with his family members.
But possibly the most destructive trait common to all narcissists is envy. As a result of feeling inferior, the narcissist can become envious of a spouse, a colleague or a neighbour, particularly a better educated, more intellectual or more successful one. It's not jealousy, you can't be jealous of something you have never had, but envy; often pathological envy. The pathological envy often felt by narcissist is a negative emotional condition brought about by the narcissist's knowledge of the possessions, achievements, or qualities of someone near to him that he does not have.
Envy involves the desire of the narcissist to have for himself something possessed by someone else. If he can't have it, he will try to destroy the possession, achievement, or quality in question, either literally or figuratively. For example, a narcissist will vehemently object to an application for planning permission by his neighbour if the result is to be that the neighbour's house will look better than his. A more figurative example may be when the narcissist envies a spouse's or a colleague's master's degree, when he doesn't have one of his own. He may describe someone he met at a recent party with a master's degree as being unintelligent and having no common sense, so by inference the spouse or colleague is not as intelligent as him, the narcissist, nor do they have common sense, as he has. From winning-teams.com
